Bring on the Rain

[Rob1231]

Rob- yes, the above shows me dwelling on something I can't change and I know that. Just replying to Neecy and how I understand exactly how she feels!

Hey Sue. Actually, I would NOT take you to task for turning off that song. You were defining a boundary for yourself - that song hurts your feelings (which you are entitled to) and so you choose not to listen to it. Good job!

That's very different from trying to force H to change his behavior (you must not see OW, you must never listen to this crummy song again, etc.) See the diff?

Thanks for the comments on H's relationship with D3. It does absolutely amaze me to see the truly dedicated fathers on this BB. My hat is off to all of them! In answer to Sheila's question, it is hurting ME more than D3 right now to see him dismiss her like he does. Rob, you do know that I consider myself to be a VERY LUCKY person to have you coming to my thread, don't you? You're The Best! I do value your thoughts very, very much.

Aw, shucks.