As a codependent, I am little wary of people. Can you give me a quick synopsis of who you are (nothing identifying though) so I can think about my responses. I do actually try to look at the record of a person I am responding to, but yours is long enough that I am having a little trouble figuring our how to put the pieces together.
How has DBing affected you and your M? Are you're comments based on being in an abusive situation or are they purely an outsiders look? Do you have children to understand the complexities of dealing with children in a M? Are you male or female? (this isn't prejudice against the advise, but it makes a difference because the legal system tends to treat women differently)
Some of these are answers I can get from a typical signature.
I think that may be the essence of what the other poster was trying to get at. They just might be letting out a little aggression in their presentation because of the current dispute over the discussion board practices.
H - 47 W - 44 M - 18+ years Separated? - 4/07 S - 13 S - 15
