Anytime...feel free to input all your want on my current or solution journal threads.
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goals set for the next two weeks.
you've said this a number of times. You haven't said what they are. And I wonder if in two weeks are those goals done and you have different ones. I am trying to be positive but unsure what you are thinking when you say goals. Just want you to consider that and above all Be consistent. Hate to be a repeating mess but you have to be consistent, otherwise you send different messages...my goals are goals that I would want to continue and then to enhance...are yours?
You have such a great opportunity to show your 180's b/c of not being separated. You must be consistent with them. I do think you need to be careful showing affection. Be careful, you'd don't want to send pursuing messages...let her take the lead, you follow. I am not talking about any bedroom type issues...just be consistent and patient. I know it is hard, but it could be worse.
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but it really helps to come on here and do that...
I know how you feel. I believe that's why they say writing a journal is therapeutic. It does help collect your thoughts. And the bonus is that you get to vent/grief/share joy here and not blunder, backslide, etc. with the WA.
