Hey CM, the thing is that we are all in different places. Quoting scripture to her may appear to be a holier than though thing to do.
Thanks Ian - that was what I thought
Just keep doing what you feel you need to do and quit worrying about justifying your actions to her. People who justify their actions without being directly questioned appear to have alterior motives.
Ian
Thanks for this also - I don't "think" I've tried to justify a lot of what I do to anyone - not consciously anyways