Great topic, I’ve been struggling with the same thing so I’m afraid I don’t have any answers. Like you I think I have a healthy amount of self esteem but I realize I’m not exactly Brad Pitt. I’ve met a few very nice ladies with a long list of positives and very few negatives I have even enjoyed spending time with a couple of them but for some reason the fireworks never seem to go off. I sometimes wonder if I’ve lost the ability to fall in love.

I try hard not to read too much into it, maybe I’m just not ready yet, maybe I just haven’t met “the one” and I hope that if I just keep working on myself and let time do its thing some day it just might happen again for me. If it doesn’t that’s ok also, the more I work on myself the more I find that being alone isn’t half bad.

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