Wish I knew why you were having dreams about H...maybe b/c it was his birthday recently...and he has been on your mind---well, like when isn't he?

Your H is still very much wrapped up in the OW and his sordid life. yOU dream of him because you still love him...that is the real reason why you still dream about him...

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller