Hey Jersting, I thought about jumping in, but thought maybe you just were journaling and left it alone.
Maybe however it is time for it to clearly appear that you are done, whether you are or not, so that she can truly figure herself out.I don't know that you will ever truly have a chance as long as she knows that you are there if she wants you to be.
There are many of us from the old days over in Surviving the big D forum. A good group of folks that would love to have you there. Plus in there, you can be done, not done, whatever and no one really cares, they just want to support you.
