I have just been trying to give her space and not bug her about who she's texting or where she's going or whatever. I do pretty well with that. I have continued to have an interest in her as far as her work and that kind of thing. The problem is I am not sure if just doing the 180's in this area is good enough or if I should be doing the last restort. For a couple weeks I pretty much backed off completely and have now started easing back in showing a little affection when the time feels right. If it doesn't, then I back off. (if it doesn't work, etc) Is that the right approach?
We had an old friend in this last week and she and W talked a lot. She seemed to think that I was going to be ok, that W still loved me but was guarding her heart and was mad at me right now. She said that I had to be patient, but as long as I stayed consistent with my attitude toward my W, she felt it would be ok. That was good news coming from her!!
The thing is, It's like I can see her letting her guard down sometimes and then before you know it, she is back to keeping me at a distance. That is a good sign I know, but its just so hard to see that and not be able to act on it. I have some goals set for the next two weeks. I just can't screw this up!!!
