mako...I have no other comment than that I think you are doing great. I think one problem we have here as men...at the outstart..is fear of setting limits out of concern or worry that we will push them away. I can tell you from experience, that is important...VERY IMPORTANT with our W's that don't fully fall under a 'clean' category of WAS....that we set boundaries and adhere to them.

I think you are standing tall. Keep it up. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;