"hell i know she is in charge right now but total disrespect and domination is unreasonable and cruel".
This is exactly how I feel. They can be so dam mean. I told my W that someday it will come back and bit her. It seemed to hit a cord.
Dobson Letter: No way man. that is a LRT and you are no where near there right now. Hey, everyone backslides, just get back on track. Your W is still very interested in you Relationship, keep it going if that is what you want. The hardest part for me right now is deciding what I want. i know I love her but I think Iam more concerned about my kids than anything. My kids told my W that they want us together last night. They don't want to hear any fighting but they want us together.
Hope that helps. You should be very confident that you are doing the best you can and that should bring some comfort to you no matter what happens.