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He also said 'Peace comes before Understanding'. In fact, we may never fully understand this whole thing. But we WILL find peace.


I am really hoping you posted this as an informative line for newbies and that you are not just now figuring this one out for yourself.

Understanding it is not possible. It takes irrational thought to understand irrational actions. If I ever do get to a point where I think I understand it, I will seek therapy that very day.

That is the goal Frank, finding Peace for ourselves. Part of finding that peace is the ability to accept that we don't have to understand everything and we will still be ok.

Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09