Essie,

I think I am falling in love with you. No really, thanks for your thoughts, you are really nice. I don't hink it is a matter of what she wants, I think she is pretty convinced she wants out although signs of confusion are all around. i asked her last night if she would go away with me to take a effective communication course with me, she said she would think about it, which kinda sounded like yes.

I may take the kids into NYC the Natrual Museum of Art.

I did go out and spend $1200 on cloths and shoes. She acted like she didn't notice but when we went out together to a few places people were saying "wow Tree you look great!" The cloths are really nice and fit my new body great. It was the first time in 20 years I went out and bought cloths for myself. Usually she brings the cheapest stuff she can find home for me that may or may not fit.

Thanks for your thoughts. It should be an interesting weekend.I'll let you know how I am doing.