Cat,

I hear you.

Quote:
says he's moving on and to stop stalling

If he wants this D let HIM do all the hard work. It seems to me like it is him who is stalling right now.

Be good to yourself. You are a survivor, you will continue to be that way

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15