Kissak, I am in agreement with you. My other post had a typo. Thanks for your eagle eyes. I apologize for what you're going through.
Tipper, To break OUT of the MLC come-back-then-leave-me cycle, continue to give your partner space. Use all of Michele's techniques, and see which works best. Remember, there is the LR, GAL, 180, no pursuing and/or R talk, SBT, and in setting/aiming for baby steps. If your partner left you more than once, try to remember what instigated it. With that knowledge, you already know what to do differently. Again, take a look at the KLA forum. Be open-minded to a new way of thinking.