it takes along time...not counted in weeks..months sometimes years...NOT weeks. we have told yo its early, some file some dont, some like mine wait and file in the middle. if you dont want D then dont file. come up with legal S to control $$ protect yourself. you have no idea whats in his mind so dont bother thinking about it. its aplace you want to be in. are you in for the long haul?


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest