I'm first again! Wow, am on a roll. But it's early and I'll have a cup 'o joe.
T2,
It's so strange how parallel our stories are once we get to surviving. It's as if our STBX's never saw any good in us at all. But they had to T2. they married us and had children with us. Instead of being honest with themselves, they have to say it was us because of their sheer audacity.
I'm pleased you get that hour now. Pretty soon it will be 2, then 3, then all of them.
Don't beat yourself up about something someone else does. Take care of yourself and your kids. That will make you better.