Originally Posted By: plentyhope
CM,

Yep, it is interesting that your W made the effort to open the parcel. Is it also possible that she was hoping the D papers were inside? I respect your choice to not grant a D to your W. Whatever you do, please also be careful that she doesn't get the impression that you are being mean to her by not granting her the D. Does she know that you're not being vengeful? Just my 2 cents...
-PH

Thanks for the input ph & yes I've been wondering for a loooooooooong time now whether my wife "understands" that I'm actually standing for our marriage AND why

How would I "break" that news to her though at this point -> it seems anything I might do or say IS going to be merely seen as me being stubbor / obstructionist, etc?

Quoting scripture is probably going to seem elitist although I don't think she's been told about and/or shown the verse in Malachi about divorce ;\) OR the one about the husband NOT granting his wife a divorce, either...

ROCK < me > HARD PLACE

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