Nope, not porn. Mostly a lot of receipts and stuff (I was telling her the truth on that).
However, there were a lot of cards and other things given to me by the woman I was dating, Linda. Lots of things written in those cards I would not want my wife to see. Additionally, I have a habit of writing things on random pieces of paper - my thoughts at the time, lists of things regarding my relationship with her (and even Linda), financial stuff regarding a potential settlement, stuff like that. Lots of it was even on the back of bar napkins, since for a while I liked sitting down at various places, have a drink or two, and write out my thoughts. I'll even admit......there was even a box of comdoms. So, you can see why I took the stuff out of there, because there is noplace to hide it in the house (all the doors are off to finish the remodel, so I can't lock a door). She surprised me by coming over, and she is the one that asked me to go get the kids some lunch, leaving her in the house all alone. Thankfully, all my DB stuff (I printed out all my threads and organized them in two large binders), relationship books, and other stuff are in a locked filing cabinet.
And regarding porn, she does have a big issue with it, and it caused us some problems in the past. If we get back together, it won't be a problem because I now better understand the real reason she had problems with it and wouldn't do that to her again.
