I am not sayin those feelings of rejection, etc... would lead ALL women to an affair, just that in my case I let my feelings steer me down that path and resisted for quite a while but eventually gave in.
I may have set myself up for a major battle but I have to get home from this trip and consult with a L to see.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07