guys am i doing it all wrong again? i realy thought i would try something new and be assertive. so fsr since this has begane i have been very passive. lately i have been very passive it feels and all she did was walk e over em. as Mink would say im going to be kind yet i will also let her know if the way she is acting is driveving me away
i can change all i want but if i never voice when im treated cruely thein I will be the one who growes resentment. if im to close to the sich and im missing something please by all means let me know.
i do realise that by being passive i got invited to go out of town for three days. but during the trip she walked all over me, and left me feeling hollow. what good is getting her back if its a falxse connection were i have to be submissive to be with her. i want a partnership not a distatorship. im not saying it shouls swing the other way and i be incharge, but it should be at least even. hell i know she is in charge right now but total disrespect and domination ics unreasonable and cruel. i was trying a new reaction instead of the same old routine. it shook her up....enought to ask if i want to see other people.
