Frank, the lexapro working the first few days is psychosomatic. it generally takes 5-7 days to actually start working as it has to get in your bloodstream and do its job, don't panic.
Again I will say this to you, it is not a stab to your heart, it is her justify her actions and feelings. Stop trying so damn hard to figure this out man. Keep your focus where it needs to be. You are allowing this woman way to much power over your emotional well being. Not for nothing, but being dependant on her for any of your feelings, very risky.
Focus Frank, you and your kids. She wants easter breakfast, fine. It has no affect on you and your kids. Take them to her for an hour and then pick them up and go do something fun with them. Let her wallow without them the rest of the day.
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I guess I am still having trouble believing this is true.
I am empathetic to this, but stop it. It is happening, reality is you have been here before and you know damn well that the longer you fight with reality, the longer you will feel all of this hurt. Do you remember posting to me very early on in my situation about the Alpha Male philosophy? Do you remember sending me and Tyson the article on being the Alpha Male? Maybe you should read it again.......
Stand up dude, you do not look good on your knees.....SHE DOES NOT DEFINE YOU.......
