Thank you so much! What a nice thing to say, and I appreciate it more than you know. Yes, I do feel comfortable in my MR right now. As with most, it could stand for improvement, but I was not trying (at least I didn't think I was) to make people think there were a lot of unsettled problems. When I went over into SSM and people started messing with me...then, I got in a mess! (lol) Just kidding!
My H and I do not fuss and fight life most couple do, I suppose. In fact, he used to drive me crazy in our younger years b/c I would want to have it out and he would refuse to fight and walk off. Oh, that would make me furious! It was probably the best way to handle it in some ways....it kept me from saying some bad things, but in other ways, it wasn't so good. That is where a lot of that pent up anger and resentment started, I would think.
Anyway, it doesn't bother me now that EVERYONE on the board does not think I'm doing what I should be doing......b/c what matters is that my H seems to be his old self again and we are getting along fine, which is a long, long way from this time last year.
So, thanks again for your kind words.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
