Hi and welcome. I love when the DB fellows get together to offer help. Just wanted to give you a big kudos for keeping yourself together as a father, your kids need your dearly right now. You are their rock, their consistent parent.

I think you are right on track. I love what you said about the bed, and yes, stay there. And Puppy Dog is soooo right about the family money. And good job on the boundaries of phone calls in the house. Amazing they don't see the disrespect there.

So sorry this happened to you but you have a found a lot of support here.