Well as you monitor what you do versus how he reacts......
I wouldn't tell him you love him now. And give him smaller 'wins'. Sounds manipulative...oh well. He's being 'trained'.
What other responses does he 'like' to get from you (besides ILY), do you think?
Only give them to him when he does what you want him to do. Don't gush for him. Let him earn that.
When he's doing the right things, he gets little wins, smiles, thank yous. When he doesn't and when he's doing the wrong thing...he gets IGNORED.
He doesn't get ILY until he's really really good. Sounds terrible from our side, right. Oh well. Let him earn himself into your good graces. Only agape (God's love) is completely unconditional.
Keep a log.
Last edited by sgctxok; 03/21/0812:27 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
