No one to turn to- 2

[addie]

Thanks for the support Stella, Jen, W2G.

I'm feeling a little down today. H hasn't been calling to talk to S on the days he doesn't see him. There was a time when he was calling every night to talk to S and then would talk to me as well but this has changed. He is coming by this evening while I go to a class.

Question - Next week I'm going away with S for a few days. I talked to H about it beforehand but am being vague about exact details. While I'm away, I don't plan on contacting H but have a feeling that he'll call my cell. Is it wrong to first of all not give him details about where I'm staying, exactly how long I'll be away and secondly to go completely dark and not respond until I get back? I'd like to create some mystery and to have H realize what it's like to not have us around - he hasn't felt this yet because he knows that we're available any time he feels he wants to drop by.
I'd like other people's opinions because I fear my emotions may be getting the better of me right now.