Kalni, Sorry to bother you again. I think it is kind of late there and I hope you get some sleep tonight. I notice our friend BobbiJo needs a new thread. Hope all is well with her.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
Kalni...I'm agog! (amazed, wide eyed). I dont know what to say, so much happened in such a short space of time. Its that full moon tonight, perhaps we can blame that. Well done anyway and I am relieved to hear you are not stressed at all about it, but you followed your heart, your intution and feel you did the right thing by speaking up. It sounds like you did, your H is procrastinating so badly. Its good that his friend spoke to him! Do you know how he took that? I know yu didnt want to pressure him, but he has had lots of time and he could at least TALK to you, like you say, he doesnt have to DO anything yet, I guess?
I wish you luck over the next few days, its the holiday, will you see him, or not? (I thikn you said he was working ! Sad).
Thanks for making me smile tonight,all over these boards, Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
apparently he took it well. He said I had told him earlier about Sat's party (I am glad I did before my friend did) and that he is "getting there" (to a decision).
My friend didn't ask if he had an idea yet about what the decision would be. So, all I can do is wait, and then wait some more. I will see him on Sat when he takes the kids and again on Sun when he brings them back.
My best gfriend is coming form Rome for a visit and we are going out on Sat with her and the third of (childhood) gfriend of the company who is living on an island now (CHIOS). It will be great so the weekend will be fine for me.
K
It seems I am making you guys smile alot. I like that. I feel happy. THANKS (for not thinking my jokes are miserable). You put a nice good night smile on my face as well. I need that.
I think it was a great conversation and your H will make the right choice. If he was leaning the other way that conversation would have gone much differently.
I just wanted to let you know that I'm here, I'm reading, I'm listening, I'm pulling for you. It is really crazy how strong who you and H are comes across even when I'm just reading the dialogue typed on the computer screen. K, it does not sound bad. He just sounds like he is trying to give himself space. It sounds like he is trying to be a good dad and a good co-parent. It sounds like he is receptive to what is going on with the kids. He is receptive to hearing your thoughts. I know you are frustrated. Hang in there, lady!!
Remember.. there are other possibilities for the man stranded in the desert... like a beautiful red-head opens the door in stunning lingerie... or he makes a new friend... or someone fixes the tire for him...
Yeah, same here. Maybe let him "open the door" first?
K
BTW, 9-10-11? How many?
13...but who's counting?! H had dinner w/ my Ds tonight. When I got home he was upstairs. Came down and said nothing. I said "hello", H said Hi then he went in the other room to read the paper and fell asleep. Oh, well, maybe we will talk tomorrow.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
