and I said that I will spend the night wondering why he is fighting so much for material possessions but not fighting for me and missing me.
Yep. I hate that.
I don't know what you should do about the computer. Something H and I decided was if one of us kept the big ticket item, that we would split the cost of the same (new) item for the other person's house (especially if it benefited the kiddos). I would let it pass for now, and see if he asks again.
