Kalni...I'm agog! (amazed, wide eyed). I dont know what to say, so much happened in such a short space of time. Its that full moon tonight, perhaps we can blame that. Well done anyway and I am relieved to hear you are not stressed at all about it, but you followed your heart, your intution and feel you did the right thing by speaking up. It sounds like you did, your H is procrastinating so badly. Its good that his friend spoke to him! Do you know how he took that? I know yu didnt want to pressure him, but he has had lots of time and he could at least TALK to you, like you say, he doesnt have to DO anything yet, I guess?

I wish you luck over the next few days, its the holiday, will you see him, or not? (I thikn you said he was working ! Sad).

Thanks for making me smile tonight,all over these boards,
Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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