InLin: We have all certainly suggested that and I am in total agreement with you. I think Pam's fear is more of upsetting Tx and ruining her fantasy rather than what we feel. But I also know that Pam cares very much about what everyone else thinks about the situation.I just wish she cared more about herself. Boundaries are VERY important in our lives. Being too kind and too trusting can get us into big trouble. Learning to trust again only comes with a trustworthy person who is willing to prove themselves repeatedly.
