Kalni, I have sitch very similar to yours. I feel as if I already know you. I just saw my T today and she said that there are some things I need to talk to my H about. There is only so long you can stand back. I have had those conversations w/ my H too where all I get back is "Hmmmm". Stay strong.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008