Kalni, Don't second guess yourself on the talk you had with your H. You felt you needed to do it and it seems to have gone well. You have to bring up issues about the kids; you have given him a lot of space and haven't pressured him but there comes a point when WAS needs to realize their actions may be having a negative affect on their children.
I am praying for you, that your H comes to the right decision for you and your family.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz