Well she didn't go file. We went to my office and took a look at splitting assets. It was very tearful for both of us. She just said she was ready to move on. We talked this morning. Big hug and kiss and i asked her to think about giving it a little more time. She siad she would think about it. On my way to Vermont.
LEAVE it at that! She said she would think about giving it more time. That is big! ANY pressure at this point will send her running.
I can't tell you how many times my husband has said he's going to go file...he doesn't even have a lawyer yet. Remember, don't believe ANYTHING. And, if she does file, that doesn't mean that you change course. Divorces are often stopped in the last minute.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
I love the hope you give me. I am so hurt right now. She has a L and she was on her way. She wants to be "Fun Sally" again, date other people. We had a lot of tears and hugs yesterday but she made it pretty clear she wants out. None of her plans include me.
Well sure, who wouldn't want to be "Fun Sally", relive their wild college days, date other people?? Of course all that's enticing. But, it's not reality. It'll be fun for a moment, but it'll crash pretty hard. Who is her circle of friends? What is their status (married, divorced, children, etc...)? Who does she look up to in her circle of friends? That can say a lot about the direction she wants to take.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Society of Separated Women?? Never heard of them. What is their agenda? Is it to save their marriages? Or is it to have fun being separted? It sounds pretty dangerous to me...
Off to Google SSW...
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Must be a local thing. Google came up with nothing. I don't like the sound of it.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
It's a joke. Just something we made up on this board. It is any group of single, separated, divorsed, unhappy women that get together and complain about thier relationships and so on and how miserable it is to be married. But they lose members to marriage or returns to thier marriage all the time. The turn over rate is very high. They get together all the time at each others houses or hang at bars and recruit members. It is the easiest club in the world to get into. You have to have no redeeming charactoristics just the ability to be miserable.
Just had a pleseant dinner out with the wife and S12. We had to cancel our trip to Vermont.
