So I'm supposed to find an answer to my dilemma here? Hmmmm...not sure.
Speaking for myself, I do have the racing heart etc when I see this guy, BUT I am also way more cautious. In the past, pre-STBX, I would have jumped right into a new R, no problem. Now, I want to get to know him first. This is due not just to the D, but also to having kids: I don't want to be introducing them to someone who is only going to be around for a short time.
WRT *ahem* ME (aka the most important person on this BB, not to mention the planet): Are you saying that you think he's being cautious? I'm not clear on that.
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