Eh, my W's friends and family tell my W "do whatever makes you happy." Think they'd say that if their S was involved?
Keep up your PMA - sounds like you're doing pretty good despite the heartache. I'm finding that some mini-weekend trips are good for the heart, and if you're in Cali, the flowers are all coming out. Never thought I'd make a trip to go look at flowers, but why not? I'm heading to Joshua Tree this weekend.
