I've come a long way, baby...

[Valentine]

OMG! that is exactly how I feel about MLM! He was a great H...everyone always told me how lucky I was...and I felt lucky too...

I wouldn't say he is NEVER gonna wake up and come home...but I know what you mean and feel the same as well...sigh.

Perhaps what we feel is life changing is not for them or maybe they are so lost in the fog or wrapped up in avoiding reality that it doesn't scan. WHo knows.

What we can do is just GAL and work on stuff that WE want to work on...maybe a garden or the interior of the house...I am re-doing my guest room in a French romantic style--first I thought, Shabby Chic, but all of that seemed way cottage-y and I am not into that look...think it's cute but really would not go with the decor in my house.

So, we have to find the brilliance in ourselves. I know it's there...we just have to find it...and in doing so, we don't obsess on what our kooky H's are doing and with whom they are doing it with.

Hugs!
Vali