Yep my H has had what I hoped would be life changing events too. Like our S15 getting arrested not once but twice in year. Nope he just comes, tries to lay down the law, then leaves me to pick up the pieces and the mess. I know he is never gonna wake up and come home. So sad b/c he was such a great h and a brilliant father.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
