You know I hear you but I have given up worrying about what she is thinking. I am making no contact at all. She can do the initiating from this point. I loved my wife and my family, but you know there are consequences in life. I can forgive, but that would take an admonition of being wrong. That is where I am not holding my breath. I don't think it matters if it is a man or a woman doing the WAWing, it is devastating to the family and creates serious emotional chasms that may be irreparable. Sorry gang, I try to stay positive but like I said, I can handle being hurt, but when you hurt my kids..... that is another story.
