What I would suggest saying...."I'm letting you go. I want you to be happy. Thanks for sharing part of your life with me. I wish you the best."
Donna,
I totally agree with Just_Me. To paraphrase a quote I heard.... "We need to let go of the life we had planned so we can embrace the life God has for us." I know this is easier said than done.... I know just hard it is to go through the intense pain...
Take Care,
No_More_Dodo
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret