ACJ, thanks for clearing that up for me!

Sometimes I think I am the cuckoo one!

I totally agree that they think in logical terms and will do anything not to dwell on illogical thoughts.

I think this is why they go to such great lengths to find faults with us or to focus on their jobs and become workaholics (MLM was already one before this began).

They won;t look inward and analyze all the terrible choices they have made....

And the cycle continues....


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller