What would (or did) you say in a last-ditch effort

[ms ladybug]

Donna,
I know the pain you feel. A lot of us do. Here's the cold, hard truth...you are NOT IN CONTROL of the situation, and you CAN'T be. I know you feel like your in a countdown. I've been there.
Do not try to think of last ditch words, or efforts to save your marriage. Acting out of desperation just makes you look...well desperate. Looking desperate will drive a man away faster than you can blink.
You HAVE to let it go. You have to give it to God, because He's the only one who can fix it (heal your heart, heal your husband). The longer you hold on, the further down you drag things. For the sake of your kids, who need a healthy mom, with a healthy outlook, turn it over the God.
Divorce isn't death. It also doesn't mean the end. A lot of people re-marry their original spouses after a divorce. Whatever God decides is your direction, is where he will take you. And, no matter what, it will be OK living in His will, because if I don't know anything...I know that MY GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF ME.

1Peter 5:7 says "Cast all your anxiety of Him, because he cares for YOU."