This may not be something most want to hear but I still think it may be valuable to some.
A mistake I made in letting h home was not continuing to stand up for myself once he was home. I allowed h to revert back to his old ways (strange position I know since it was h who had ow and left) without consequence.
It's easy to let alot go when begining to piece by trying to be careful not to push them away again.
