I know this doesn't matter now, but I have read that the % of divorce increases when people live together before M.

isn't that ironic, when people think that they should live together to see if it would work before getting M.

I know you have so many reasons to be bitter and angry. But us LBS' are the ones who are thinking rationally. If your goal is to save the M, then WE are the ones who have to humble ourselves in order to achieve our goal. Cause they won't be the ones doing it. unfortunately.

sorry your having some emotional distress this morning. it will pass. try to think of all the positive things he's doing. and encourage those things he IS doing right.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."