The apartment was his idea. I was completely against it until I was faced with having my kids move between homes. In the big picture, I think it's a positive, but yeah, he gets his cake and eats it too. However, I'm the one who's off having fun and going out when I'm at the apartment; he's the one who's more likely to be sitting alone reading.
As for the partying/bars thing, I love to party! That wasn't a problem. Money and babysitters really were. It wasn't that I didn't want to go out and party, he wanted to go out and party without me! grrrr.
I have to run, I'll reply before you're back on Monday.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
