LEAVE it at that! She said she would think about giving it more time. That is big! ANY pressure at this point will send her running.

I can't tell you how many times my husband has said he's going to go file...he doesn't even have a lawyer yet. Remember, don't believe ANYTHING.
And, if she does file, that doesn't mean that you change course. Divorces are often stopped in the last minute.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."