The miscarriages adds another dimension to the picture. You two are a very interesting couple! My husband and I went through infertility and several miscarriages (honestly they all get confused in my memory and I can't say how many). In fact, our first son is adopted, and then we had 2 children after that. I remember the depression caused by the miscarriages, and the sense of hopelessness. If that had been coupled with an angry spouse who treated me poorly I would have been out the door too. Going to another country sounds like an excellent idea! And I'd leap at the opportunity to travel to France with almost any man. (But don't tell my husband.) Your wife has some grieving to do. Miscarriages are losses, no matter how you look at it. I imagine she is escaping -- escaping her failure to accomplish what everyone takes for granted - babymaking, and escaping you. but she loves you. So she says. I say give her a chance. Let down the hard walls and let her in to a soft spot in your heart. She's been through the mill.
