Got blindsided again by W b/f, this time in email. I know she's trying to help cos when things looked bleak for me she would say there's no hope with W but don't give up. Now things are looking better she trying to offer me the opposite point of view. Today's gem was "Once someone strays they'll always stray, even thinking about it is straying". Then she went all cryptic, but was basically saying W maybe thinks bout it cos she looking for satisfaction else where. Must admit it did wobble me a bit but I've resisted the temptation to reply to her and I re read Forrrest's last post with these quotes to steady myself.
Originally Posted By: forrest Gump
I would say she called because she is "nosy". Or maybe she is feeling the distance. You even said you nor your wife really talk to her anymore. So I am gonna go with "nosy" and/or looking for the "drama".
so true, definantly looking for the drama cos W not feeding her with it.
Originally Posted By: forrest Gump
I mean lets face it. You were DAM'n when you were talking to her in the first place. I know we seek out the info for the fix. That is not you (now). I have watched from afar.. and that is not you. Don't let the stupid stuff get in the way.
Yep, I try not to talk R with her.
On a positive note I'm on my date with W tonight. Just to remind you, this started off as W being on a night with work colleagues and me separately meeting up with my friends to go to a club. Then W said could I meet up with her for a quick drink before going off to the club. Then when she relised where I was going and who I was meeting up with she asked could she come with me to the club. Now she wants me to meet her for the drink, stay a good while and meet all her work colleagues then the two of us go on to the club on a date. D6 will be with SIL so we don't need to get up early, so there's a possibility of "You know what" but only a small possibility.
Last night W modelled the outfit that she wanted to wear and she looked stunning, I couldn't believe it cos as she was doing a twirl I actually got aroused (the little man woke up) so she still does it for me. The only negative thought was maybe I won't get my hands on any of that but I live in hope.
