I knew all that Jeff. I just wanted to hear you say it again and remind yourself of the good reasons. Now keep remembering! It was a trick, I am practicing for April 1st!
I cannot imagine driving by my place and seeing someone elses horses in my pasture instead of mine. Especially not if it was a decision I was forced to make rather than wanting to make.
Did your W ever resent your place because it was your own before it was yours and hers? H will still toss that at me every now and then even though he assured me at the time it would not be a problem for him to move in with me.
I vote for the mad combination. Jeff and W both.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.