Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

I don't know DMB, she's been pretty brazen so far. But I agree with you I don't think it means much, it's just because it's "tainted" that it bugs me. That and a year ago when she started wearing the "special undies" to work out of the clear blue and I questioned her it was because it "made her feel good". Yeah, that and it makes you squishy sitting in OM's office flirting with him.

Getting rid of the affair stuff WILL happen if she keeps progressing to a point of wanting to make our marriage work. But right now she's not ready to commit yet and if I made that suggestion now it would not be in line with me acting like I could care less whether she's with me or not, and it would just make her angry. And that's not what I need right now.

Incidentally, the roller coaster continues. Sent WW an email because the exit off of the expressway by our house is closed because of flooding and she'll have to take some back roads home from work and I got a kind of cold response. It was acknowledgement that I sent it and nothing more. I know enough to expect these types of swings in her attitude for a while, but it doesn't make it any easier when for the last 4 days I've seen my real wife. For her to slip back is hard. But I guess it's to be expected. Every day she goes to work where she met OM it's got to be a tough trigger for her.

Anyway, Can't worry about her, only can keep my strong confident self going and if she doesn't want to play, I'll take my toys home from the sandbox (put that in for you guys and your Dr Suess poems, which I loved!).