Your W sounds almost as self-absorbed as my H! He has always been a little selfish, but now with the affair he is even more self-absorbed. He looks at things primarily on how it will affect him & his life, even with issues regarding the kids. I am hoping at some point he will get more involved again with the kids. I was telling my C today, my H has always been a little distant, but now it's like he is on another planet. I think my H is going through a mid-life crisis. Maybe your W is as well (although she seems young for that)? So I am hoping H will improve if he ever completes his MLC, and maybe your W will as well if that is what she is going through now.
Happy Easter to you! I hope you and your kids have a great holiday! And you sound like a great dad, I don't think it's what you do with them that matters, just that you spend the time with them and they know they are a priority in your life and you love them! Karen
