I am learning to not set myself up. I honestly thought H would check on me throughout these first weeks.
We both need to work on this. It’s not as bad as your sitch but I too thought W would call just to see how I was doing because of my allergic reaction I had. But she did not. I let it go....
take care LWB and remember you have my E-mail if ya need a friend to vent to OFF LINE...
Dr LOve (husband)
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Im so sorry that he is being selfish. But in your post you do sound calmer that he isn't in the house. and you need some calmness in your life right now.
Im so sorry about your friend, it makes us realize that life is so short and not to waste time enjoying yourself and making the best of it.. which you are already doing!
Remember in time he will have lots of regrets.. but you tried everything to save what you had, and he can't say that. You will move on, and one day find someone who appreciates you the way you should be.
(((hugs)))
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Lwb, sorry about your friend!. I am sorry H wasn't more supportive, I have had to lower my expectations too and then am surprised when H does come through for us!
I think your kids will do fine! I think the kids and I are surprisingly enjoying the new calm, peaceful household we have now vs. when H was here, being crazy, flaky, and causing stress. And I really think he had emotionally checked out of our family a few months ago anyway, so maybe now he will reconnect at some point when he regains his sanity (if ever)! Karen
I can fully relate to you about your h's reaction or lack thereof. What is so hard to understand is how they felt so much for you and then all of a sudden they have hit the off switch.
